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After graduating from college, I was faced with that big, white sheet of paper: Where do I go? So, I filled out countless applications for jobs in publishing, and, while waiting to hear back, spent my time waiting for an opportunity to move to New York City. Finally, I broke it down into steps, and , one at a time. So many others would not have the opportunity to move to New York without a job or an internship or an apartment.
Bird Writing Paper
For me, it was possible, but I needed to break it down.Then my father sat down beside him put his arm around my brother's shoulder, and said, 'Bird by bird, buddy.Just take it bird by bird.'"Lamott uses this anecdote as a guiding principle for her writing practice, and she thinks about this story when she needs to "get a grip." And so do I.She writes: "Thirty years ago my older brother, who was 10 years old at the time, was trying to get a report written on birds that he'd had three months to write, which was due the next day.We were out at our family cabin in Bolinas, and he was at the kitchen table close to tears, surrounded by binder paper and pencils and unopened books about birds, immobilized by the hugeness of the task ahead.But, it's not just on those days when my to-do list is killing me that I say "bird by bird" to myself. It's an obvious metaphor, but the future is not unlike a blank page — they are both open to too many possibilities to comprehend.It's why that classic job interview question "Where do you see yourself in five years? But when you break life into pieces, then it becomes more manageable. It's difficult to have the whole picture figured out at once, but you can fill in pieces until it comes together.Do you see yourself living in a house in five years? Bird by Anne Lamott, , Amazon When I moved to New York City after living in Austin for my entire life. And of course, there were steps within those steps.I had grown up with an insatiable thirst for the city, but actually making the move had always seemed like a pipe dream. When I broke it down — bird by bird — it was clear to me that New York was the first step in the journey. Finding an apartment got broken down into researching neighborhoods, looking through Craigslist, emailing potential roommates. Of course, this all involves tremendous privilege on my part.The book, for the uninitiated, deftly and honestly explores the mental challenges of being a writer, and Lamott's advice is, simply put, invaluable: she implores writers to give themselves short assignments; she asks that people forgive themselves for "shitty first drafts." But the most memorable piece of advice in the book is one that carries over beyond writing.It's the piece of advice to which the book owes its title, and it originates in a moment in Lamott's childhood.